INFG Lifegroup

What do you think of when you hear the words “Life Group”?  When I hear Life Group, I think of people gathering together to share their lives with each other in love and truth.  More importantly, I think of women with a commonality, gathering together to minister to each other’s lives with Christ’s love. It’s important for women to be able to have a safe, loving environment in which to gather.  God wants us to gather in fellowship to minister to one another; to lift each other up.

There have been many women who have gone through If Not For Grace Ministries, whether it was for a Her Choice to Heal class, Reconciliation Weekend, Aftercare Bible Study and quite possibly all of them.  These are all great tools for post-abortive women to find healing through Christ’s love, but we also need to share our lives with one another.  This is the purpose of “Life Group”.  It is the perfect opportunity to be authentic with every part of your life and to feel safe doing so.  Life Group is a tool for you to live out the abundant life Christ desires each of us to have.  So we invite you to come and share your lives with us every third Thursday of the month.

- Jennifer Weld

If you would like more information about our Life Group, please email Jennifer at jweld@infg.org.

“But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship one with another, and the blood of Jesus Christ his Son cleanseth us from all sin.”  I John 1:7 (KJV)

“For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst of them.”  Matt 18:20 (KJV)

 

 

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I Found Joy; I Found Hope

Last year at this time, I started my healing journey as a post-abortive.   I was scared and didn’t know what to expect. I felt it was enough for me to just make it through the Her Choice to Heal classes.  Every time the Reconciliation Weekend was mentioned in class or out of class, it automatically went in the “There’s no way I’m doing that!!!!” file.   I wouldn’t think about it; I wouldn’t pray about it; I wouldn’t even consider it.  I WAS NOT GOING THERE.

I am not going to lie and say the Her Choice to Heal class was easy, it wasn’t. It was hard, however, I felt like I was getting a lot of encouragement from God.  On the day of the deadline to sign up for the Reconciliation Weekend, I was finishing up the lesson for the following days Her Choice to Heal class and came across yet another flyer for the Reconciliation Weekend. This time I heard God speak to me and said, “You need to be there.”   So I went to my husband secretly hoping he would forbid me to go, but instead he said for me to do whatever I needed to heal.   Then I thought, well it’s probably too late to sign up or maybe there wouldn’t be an open spot for me.

The next day, I asked Lori if it was too late. She said no and in fact added that I would be the sixth participant to make it fiscally responsible to have the Reconciliation Weekend.

As the weekend approached, I was so scared that I had to force myself go.  When I arrived, I remember distinctly sitting around that Friday evening.  The Reconciliation Weekend was just getting started and there I was judging people in my mind and holding back; I didn’t want to be there.  But then, God spoke again and said, “What are you doing?” and I knew.  I was trying to negate the good thing He had begun to do in me.  I repented, I opened up and I poured my heart out for the next 3 days.

Over the next few weeks the joy that began to pour into my soul was immeasurable.  I finally felt free from the past and was actually looking forward to what He would do in me in the future.   I know fear has a way of gripping you and not letting go. Just being obedient to God and making yourself go through the process of healing without holding back, is well worth the joy you experience when you come out on the other side.   There is a hope that is far more than just going through the motions of life, but actually living life, FULLY.

~JRV

 

 

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Living in God’s Abundance

The receiving of W2’s is an annual January occurrence in the majority of U.S. households.   Calculators are retrieved from kitchen junk drawers and tabulations computed – net income, gross income, daycare costs, medical expenses, charitable donations.  The list varies from house to house, but the act of tabulating the family’s income and expenses is a universally daunting task.  An inner curiosity emerges as eraser shavings are brushed aside.  The final feeling is.…

Stunned, elated, nervous, and hopeful – a mixture of emotions coursed through our veins as the Board of INFG Ministries adopted the 2012 budget during our January meeting.  Exiting into the evening cold, confidence smoldered in our hearts as we reflected upon the generosity of the One who envisioned, birthed, sustains, and expands this ministry.

Our Lord, who has no favorite causes, provides generously out of his abundance for every ministry He originates.  God faithfully gives his attention to every detail and provides the resources required for fulfilling the Kingdom expanding work to which he recruited us.  Praise God from whom all blessings flow!

We commend you who financially invested in 2011 in the Lord’s vision for every post-abortive woman, man, and family in our community by giving to this ministry. New financial gifts in 2012 will increase opportunities for INFG Ministries to accomplish the mission to which He has called us — providing opportunities for restoration by leading those struggling with the pain of abortion to a place of forgiveness, and reconciliation.

The Lord does not ask every family to make a financial gift to this cause.  However, He does ask all Believers to engage in thoughtful stewardship, spiritual discernment and true generosity.

A year from now, I pray your heart be filled with awe and praise as you calculate the percentage of household income you gave in faith to Kingdom-expanding work in 2012!

- Mindy Beyer, Board of Directors

 

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INFG Services Offered

Nurses.  Accountants.  School bus drivers.  Administrative  assistants. Stay at home moms. Business owners.  Teenagers.  Moms of teens.  Grandmas.  These describe the diversity of women who contact our ministry.  Their occupations and ages may vary, but they all have something in common.  They are women who have been affected by abortion and are in need of help and healing.

Isaiah 61:1-3 is the foundational Scripture for If Not For Grace Ministries.  In it, the words can describe a woman or man who is struggling from the choice of abortion—afflicted, brokenhearted, captive, imprisoned, mourning, grieving, in despair.  The sentiment “I know God has forgiven me but I just can’t forgive myself” is an example of this for many of the women who are seeking help.  God has established INFG for the purpose of ministering to them with the good news of complete forgiveness and freedom.  He has given us the vision “to enable post-abortive women, men and families to live authentic, abundant lives.”

The team of leaders, whom God has raised up to be part of this ministry, is made up of caring and compassionate followers of Jesus Christ.  Most have experienced abortion themselves, received Christ’s healing though our programs, and have been stirred by the Holy Spirit to walk alongside others who are ready to begin the journey of healing.  We train and equip our leaders, first of all, with the Word of God in a discipleship setting, helping them grow healthy roots.  We believe a leader can only give out what she has received.  We also use a mentor-mentee approach to develop our leaders, providing them with training in post-abortion recovery, how best to share about INFG and their own testimony.  All of this is to encourage them in bearing fruit to do greater things for the kingdom— “mobilized for Kingdom expanding work” the second part of our vision.  With the leadership of our ministry team, If Not For Grace provides opportunities for restoration and reconciliation for those struggling through the following services:

  • Her Choice to Heal Classes – nine week Bible-based studies provided in either a group or one-on-one setting
  • Reconciliation Weekends – a retreat experience for post-abortive women, men, and families which includes a memorial service for their lost child(ren)
  • Aftercare – Bible studies and monthly Life Group meetings intended to foster an ongoing community of healing and opportunity for growing in the Truth.
  • Speaking Engagements/Resources – to raise community awareness of the topic of post-abortion and the services we provide to those who are struggling from this decision.

As with many painful experiences-whether physical, emotional or spiritual- a woman who has chosen abortion needs ongoing support, even if she has received significant healing through a class or weekend experience.  That’s why we encourage all participants to stay connected to the ministry through our Aftercare program.  In our Bible studies, God’s truth—who God says He is and who He says they are—continues to be established in their lives.  During our Life group gatherings, women have the opportunity to socialize and share for encouragement and friendship.  Our goal is to help each woman receive the healing the Lord has in mind for her, enabling her to live in freedom and abundance and to fulfill the purpose for which He has created her.

- Jama Edlund, Director of Ministry Services

Email Jama (jedlund@infg.org)  if you have questions or would like more information about any of INFG’s services.

 

 

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February Director’s Message

Depending on Jesus

As I’ve anticipated this New Year, never before have I felt such resolve in my heart to depend upon Jesus for the Vision and Mission for this ministry.  For it is only through dependence, we can achieve the victorious, abundant blessings He has in store for His people through INFG.  This deeper dependence on Jesus motivates me to fully embrace “immeasurably more than all we can ask or imagine” in 2012.  In a recent Team Leader meeting, we opened with an intro question, “using the 1st letter of your last name, choose a word that describes you and think of an example.”  I chose “determined,” because of its association with the word purpose. God has a much more significant purpose for us and it is this place of abundant (plentiful, rich, ample, lavish) living! It brought me back to a verse that was a theme for us as a Team a few years ago: “[for my determined purpose is] that I may know Him [that I may progressively become more deeply and intimately acquainted with Him, perceiving and recognizing and understanding the wonders of His Person more strongly and more clearly],” (AMP).  This is our foundation because our work at INFG springs up out of ministering to Him! We have so many wonderful goals to accomplish this year, but none so important as knowing Him more intimately.  Our two vision words for 2012 are:  Faith and Empowerment.  Faith–the kind of faith that is risky, that involves stepping out and perceiving as real fact what is not revealed to the senses; and Empowerment—equipping our leaders and enabling the post-abortive to live authentic, abundant lives; mobilizing them for Kingdom expanding work. I love the part in the book “The Normal Christian Life,” by Watchman Nee, that says “Mary gave it all up for Him, nothing in reserve for a future day.”  She lavished all she had and on resurrection day she had no regrets of her extravagant act.”  We pray that our Board, Staff, Team and Volunteers might impart the very Presence of God to those He brings to INFG.  His light in us will create a hunger for Him, so they may be restored and set free to walk in the fullness of Christ.  2 Corinthians 2:14 says “But thanks be to God, who always leads us in triumphal procession in Christ and through us spreads everywhere the fragrance of the knowledge of Him.” We want to be the vessels He will reveal himself through to those He gives us divine appointments with in this generation.

In closing, my Pastor (www.abundantlife.com) is preaching on “Revolutionary Faith,” and after describing the meanings of revolutionary, I decided to look it up myself. One of the synonyms, “ground-breaking,” jumped out at me.  This ministry to the post-abortive definitely relies on this kind of “pioneering” faith to reach the hundreds, upon thousands, upon millions who have suffered from the pain of abortion(s) in our nation and communities. Just these last two months, women have found us through Pregnancy Resource Centers, Counseling Centers, Churches, our Metro Voice ad, and ARIN (www.abortionrecoveryinternational.org) but so many still do not know that we are here to help.  If God impresses on your heart to help us bring more awareness to this need, please call our office at 816-847-2911 and join us in reaching the masses with the message of restoration through Jesus Christ.  Thank you for your prayers and support!

 

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